Friday, December 12, 2008

Adoption Update, Number 4

I think it's number 4. It might be number 5. I can't remember.

Anyway, our social worker came today for our last visit and to bring us our certificate. We are now officially licenced foster/adoptive parents.

Actually, we got put into the computer yesterday. And, we almost had two little girls yesterday. Our social worker called us around 8:30 yesterday morning and asked if we would be willing to take two sisters that were taken into custody the night before. They were 18 months old and 8 months old. We said yes.

Let me tell you, all heck broke loose over here.

Todd was already at work, so I called in reinforcements in the form of Meme (my mom) and Gran (Todd's mom). I needed to straighten up, pick up all of the very small toys that a baby and toddler can put in their mouths (and believe me, there were ALOT), find the crib, put it together, and countless other things.


Chaos reigned for about an hour and a half.

Then, the social worker called again and said they weren't coming. They had had an emergency hearing and the judge gave custody to the father.

What a letdown! After all of that running around and getting ready and trying to figure out what the next few days were going to be like, it was like someone popped my balloon. Curt was really disappointed as well. Jack didn't seem to be bothered at all, but he is pretty flexible.

But, in spite of the disappointment, we learned some valuable lessons. The first thing we learned is that this could happen pretty quickly. We have decided that it is probably a good idea to set up the crib and just leave it up in case we need it.

Something else we figured out was that we probably need to find some of the baby things and get them washed and ready for a spur of the moment placement. These little girls yesterday didn't even have shoes and socks!!

The most important thing we learned, however, was to be ready and willing to do whatever God would have us do. We don't have any idea what our family will look like in the weeks and months to come, but we do know that God has a plan for our family. And, that plan will ultimately be for good and for His glory if we follow his leading.

Stay tuned!!


Camera Clicker said...

Tim gave me a 3 sentence run-down on things when he came home from work today. WOW! What a rush, eh?
It is exciting to watch what God is going to do!

THE BOULET'S said...

Well, I can honestly say I KNOW exactly what you were feeling the entire time. From the moment you called me until you and I finished texting ya'll were in my thoughts. We walked down the same path before and it is an emotional high then a low. But through it all we knew that it was God's doing. We are glad to share in this special time with you and I am patiently waiting until the next phone call.........

rg said...

Wow! That is exciting and disappointing all at the same time. I'm glad you have reinforcements there to help at a moment's notice. Can't wait to hear what happens next.